If you have set a goal to lose weight in 2010, and are starting or re-starting a diet and/or fitness plan, there’s one crucial thing you can do to significantly increase your chances for success. It’s simple, effective, and quick; however it’s likely that you’ve never done it before now. If you don’t want to be one of those people who lose steam after a few weeks of motivation, learn how to keep yourself focused and motivated once the newness wears off.
One crucial way to do this is to keep your reasons for losing weight front and center in your mind. You may be thinking, how will I ever forget why I wanted to do this? But you’d be surprised how easily we forget when there’s tempting food around. Then, sabotaging thoughts jump in – have you ever had any of these?
Without a clear way to counter these sabotaging thoughts, it is likely that at some point you will give up on your goal, stray from your diet, and stop losing weight. So, to combat sabotaging thoughts in difficult circumstances, start right now by making a list of all the reasons why you want to lose weight. Here are the reasons I used in my own weight loss:
1. I’ll feel better physically.
2. I’ll look better.
3. I’ll enjoy shopping for clothes.
4. I’ll have more energy.
5. I’ll be able to wear more stylish clothes.
6. I’ll do more things (like go to the beach).
7. I’ll be happier when I look in the mirror.
8. I’ll live longer.
9. I’ll be more fit.
10. I’ll enjoy sex more.
11. I’ll be in better health.
12. I’ll feel more in control.
13. I’ll increase my self esteem.
14. I’ll be able to wear a smaller size.
You can use some of mine, and be sure to add your own. What you want is a compelling list of your reasons, in order of priority to you.
Then, transfer this to a piece of paper or index card that you carry with you at all times. Commit to reading your list at least 2 times every day, and anytime you find yourself struggling with sticking to your plan. I read my list before each meal,so it was fresh in my mind every time I ate. I carried my list with me to parties and friends’ houses to use prior to eating. There were many times when the only reason I didn’t over-indulge was the strength I gained from reading my list. It helped me say to myself, “As much as I want to eat this right now, losing weight is more important to me.”
Help yourself to stick to what’s important to you instead of beating yourself up when you don’t.
| Song | Time | Artist | Album |
| Thank You for Hearing Me | 6:25 | Sinead O’Connor | Universal Mother |
| Soar | 4:45 | Christina Aguilera | Stripped |
| Somptin Hapnin (Water In Me) | 10:32 | Adham Shaikh | Canta |
| Sufani | 5:33 | Gaudi | Canta |
| Stand | 4:26 | Taylor Dayne | Naked Without You |
| Back to the Earth | 5:27 | Rusted Root | When I Woke |
| Greatest Gift | 4:24 | Tina Arena | Don't Ask |
| Everything (iTunes Originals Version) | 4:35 | Alanis Morissette | iTunes Originals - Alanis Morissette |
| Ave Maria | 5:17 | Josh Groban | Noël |
| Song | Artist |
| I Heard It Through The Grapevine | Michael McDonald |
| Sol Tapado | Thievery Corporation |
| I Need Your Love | MBmusic |
| I Gotta Believe | Honey Soundtrack (Yolanda Adams) |
| Stand | Taylor Dayne |
| I'm In Heaven | Universal Funk |
| Get It Together | Seal |
| Back to the Earth | Rusted Root |
| Jump | Madonna |
| Waiting on the World to Change | John Mayer |
| Shores of Avalon | Tina Malia |

This year, I am also planning a fall detox because I put on a pair of my jeans this week and they were noticeably tighter! I have been aware that since my husband’s cycling accident and my subsequent care giving to him that I have been using food and drink to comfort myself and relax. Yikes!
So, if you’d like to join me in a Fall Detox week, here’s the details….
We’ll be following the Quantum Cleanse Diet, which simply eliminates the following 5 foods:
You can find more information on the rationale for the diet and its benefits by downloading my Cleanse Overview here.
You WILL feel great on this diet, and NOT hungry! I have found that it does take a little planning, however. You can find recipes and food ideas by downloading my Cleanse Guide here.
Dates: Sunday, November 15th through Saturday, November 21st – you can do the diet for 1 day up to 7 days (or longer if you like!) I recommend at least 3 days to really feel a difference in your body, mind, and spirit.
How to Join: Email me and let me know how many days you'll be on the Cleanse diet. I’ll put you on the support list, which means you'll get additional recipes and information to help keep you motivated. Even if you just do it for one day, it’s great to get support and connect with others who are doing it with you! Get a friend to do it with you, and really enhance your experience. If you want to REALLY jumpstart your detox, think about coming to the Love Your Body Mini-Retreat on Sunday, November 15th.
Please feel free to contact me if you have any questions or concerns.
| Song | Time | Artist | Album |
| Mangalam | 9:11 | Prem Joshua | Dance of Shakti |
| Kissing | 6:09 | Bliss | Sex & The City |
| Wade In the Water | 4:02 | Eva Cassidy | Songbird |
| I Gotta Feeling | 4:49 | Black Eyed Peas | The E.N.D. (The Energy Never Dies) |
| Send Me On My Way (Live) | 5:13 | Rusted Root | Evil Ways - EP |
| We All Sleep Alone | 5:11 | Cher | Believe |
| Ojos Así (Meme's 2001 Nights Long Mix) | 5:58 | Shakira | 1, 2, 3 Let's Dance |
| Ain't No Other Man | 3:48 | Christina Aguilera | Ain't No Other Man - Single |
| Brush With the Blues | 6:25 | Jeff Beck | Who Else! |